Based on the statistics of intergender matches (which heavily favor the girls) and the first hand accounts of both the guys and girls who wrestle, should wrestling be considered a girls' sport in society?
In my opinion, yes. There are some things that boys are better than girls at, and things that girls are better than boys at. Wrestling is one of those things that girls are better at. This is shown by the massive amount of official matches that go in favor of girls. At many boys divisions, girls occupy all 3 spots on the podium. If the best 3 wrestlers in the boys division are girls, is it even the boys division? Girls have taken over!
Wrestling isn't a girl's sport and It isn't even a boy's sport. It's just a sport where everyone can play.
ReplyDeleteThe point of wrestling isn't win but try to win having fun even if you lose. It doesn't matter If girls win more often than boys(and still you're obviously exaggerating, girls don't win always and isn't one-sided).
Then there are still more boys that wrestle, that would mean boys like It more than girls(i'm not saying is a boy's sport, calm down babe)
From the point of view of society, it’ll still be a boys sport until girls outnumber us. From the point of view of a wrestler, girls have definitely taken over wrestling. It’s just the lack of girl wrestlers compared to boys that makes less people realize it. A boys division with a few girl wrestlers is still a boys division, it’s just being run by the girls.
ReplyDeleteAll sports should be open and inclusive to all, so no clearly wrestling isn’t a girls sport. Having said that girls success on the mats show it is a sport ideally suited to girls. I think a lot of the contention arises because girls have had to struggle and fight just for the right to wrestle, and in a perfect world girls would have their own division, but the fact of the matter is so few girls compete that the only matches they can get is against guys, and I think this is where the bitterness arises between both genders, guys get salty and girls get bitchy. Wrestling is known as the king of sports the sport of kings where in matches the best man wins the best man is king, yet now this doesn’t happen the best man doesn’t win instead he gets his ass whooped by a girl. And this has happened since time immemorial – traditional Mongolian wrestls wear a special attire to prove they are men because before girls used to enter the tournaments and massacre the toughest of men.
ReplyDeleteI think the reason girls do so well against guys simply comes down to bodyshape and anatomy. A guy who warms up with weights that are a girls max in the gym (tbf girls are closing this gap too) all too often gets overpowered in the clinch by a girl just because she can get better leverage because of the female physique, the hour glass shape, wider hips gives better balance better base better ground pressure and the ability to generate greater force (scissors are a particular well documented example) time and time again we see a guy has no chance against this. It’s just physics and biology we need to get over it but it does mean girls will always have the natural advantage over guys in grappling. So a big deal shouldn’t be made of it, it doesn’t mean that girls are ‘the superior gender’
Guys ego’s can’t handle losing to girls and all sorts of excuse of denial and vitriol come out (notably from guys who have never had to experience it).
e.g. matches where girls win are the only ones shown… yet tournament organisers invariably are the ones posting the videos and they post all the matches yet still it is rare to see a guy win. Not ther most scientific way to gather statistics but still approximately valid 141-2 is mental but probably approximately correct!
The girls are experienced matched against novice guys… All tournaments are segregated into categories/divisions/grades that prevent this, so this obviously isn’t true
It’d just some fetish… None of these videos are of that ilk, yes there are men who fantasise beating beaten up by women (and grils who fanatsize the same) but those men don’t grapple, these matches are reality.
The girls are a lot older… Not one of Selena’s videos show this, yet many are the opposite e.g. match 132 the girl is much younger but still won fairly easily. The bjj video the girl was still in high school (yes in her last year as a senior) but she went against men and won gold, and not only that the men got maimed! This is very similar to my one and only experience of intergender grappling my background is submission grappling (bjj mainly but I’ve done a bit of judo also) I enetered a small bjj tournament where due to numbers categories had to get merged to ensue everyone could take part, well at blue belt in the men’s 160lbs limit a 17 year old girl (I’m 24) who was just over 140 had to come in and basically she made short work of it tapped us all out and took gold. I faced her in the second round and got absolutely hammered, choked me out on my back and her sitting on my head a leg figure 4 locked in. The worst part was after she said “thank you well done you tried really hard” sounds innocent enough but at the same time really got the feeling she was subtley mocking me/us, almost passive bullying. This is something I notice a lot with you Selena, friendly and funny but rubbing it in, even this post declaring wrestling a girls sport is quietly antagonistic. Even another girl has pulled you up in another post for bullying. The way you mock 21ststarter (and girl wrestlers mock guys in general by default) I feel is unfair
I guess that makes sense about why the VERY FEW girls that wrestle beat us, but wrestling absolutely is not a girls sport, as you say it is the sport of kings. Girls should not be allowed to wrestle full stop, much less aginst boys and win. We don’t do cheerleading so why should it be ok for girls to wrestle? The Mongols had the right idea
DeleteAs I said all sports should be inclusive. I’m not sure there is anything to say boys can’t cheerlead, I guess it’s just they choose not to, but some girls choose to wrestle as is their right, as painful as it is for their victims. I guess my experience was softened since she hands down beat 3 of us one after the other. But it was still hard taking a licking of a 17 year old at the age of 24!! She was mean before and during the match (my first round was straight after hers, she tapped the dude like a piece of cake then watched my match which I won and then proceeded to stare me out, she meant business and took care of it, it took me by surprise how menacing a figure she was, large chested in a pink rash guard (no gi) she had a blond bob and a fairly square jaw and thick neck for a girl and just did not blink or take her eyes of me she was pretty good at the art of psyching out which was off putting itself when a girl 6 years your junior can actually pull a face so intimidating! But I wouldn’t then call her or all girls bullies, and like I said she was all sweetness and polite after the fight but yes I still had that impression that she was actually taking the piss out of us. But like I said I won my first match and she won all 3, it’s just literally the physique of girls give them a hell of an advantage over boys and men,you an’t hate on them for that.
DeleteJosh, how come you think girls shouldn’t be allowed to wrestle? As Stu said, clearly girls are more well suited for wrestling. if anything, maybe boys shouldn’t be allowed to wrestle. The sport of kings? Maybe back then, but today the girls dominate and its obvious. Trying to stop us from wrestling will just motivate girls even more and then you wonder why we act cocky when we win.
DeleteStu, I never declared wrestling a girls’ sport. I just voiced my opinion. You are free to disagree but I will still stand by what I said.
Hi Selena, I re read what I said and I realise I come across as sore and begrudging girls of feeling or expressing any kind of pride for what they have achieved. I don’t actually disagree with you that much, I said wresting isn’t a girls sport because in this modern age all sports should be inclusive to all. But considering the sheer one sided conclusion and the almost casual brutality in the way girls finish intergender matches, as a man I guess I found your question and some of the things you say a put down (tbf you do seem to enjoy putting us down after the match as well as pinning guys and beating us up in matches), but I’m being like other guys because of your confidence and self assurance I guess and act begrudgingly that girls want to celebrate their achievements for that I am sorry, you are no bully, everything you say it’s absolutely correct, you just have to sit back not say anything because you have all the proof to show you are absolutely right, and your question I admit actually a fair one to ask. The evidence speaks for itself, we definitely agree on that!
DeleteBecause boys don’t do girls sports, why should girls be so entitled to do men’s sports? It’s not equal rights because it means girls have a wider choice of sports then boys, how is that equal? And why if you want equal opportunity make a competition out of it? Boys don’t keep score of girl v boy matches yet, not only are you really spiteful on the mats, you girls feel the need to showcase every victory over us. It’s really bitchy! If you were losing badly you wouldn’t do it! From what Stu was saying I think this means girls have an unfair advantage, so obviously competition between girls and boys isn’t fair unless girls have a handicap so they can’t win. It’s the same as a drug cheat in a way, they are not allowed, so why should girls be?
DeleteHave you ever considered that wrestling isn’t a boy’s sport? Maybe out of fairness guys shouldn’t be able to participate with girls then since they just get creamed.. While I do enjoy beating up cocky guys, there are just not enough girls to create a girls only wrestling league on a national level. While many girls (myself included) like to wrestle against guys, some girls also would much prefer a girls only tournament for the challenge. Most girls I know don’t even take the boys’ division all that seriously, and still end up in 1st place consistently.
DeleteThe reason why guys don’t keep score of girls vs boys matches is pretty obvious.. why would the guys want to embarass themselves? LOL
I agree about the challenge of girls tournaments, I get the impression to win a girls tournament carries alot more prestige for a girl than to win a boys or mens tournament, which is just seen as a bit of fun and easy to win
DeleteA dude champ in a girls tournament wouldn't even get through the first round let alone place
I totes identify wrestling as a girls sport lots of boys think it’s disrespectful for a girl to wrestle and win. Maybe they think that because more of them do it than us, that girls should just go do girlie stuff but do I think wrestling IS girls stuff? Yes I do! Wrestling is man’s oldest sport ok, but it’s not just for boys anymore – it’s being perfected by girls!!! Before I wrestled I used to get better grades than the boys in class sure, but I had such low self esteem, and a lot of boys are so aggressive and douche bags I used to be so frightened of boys I used to cry loads (still do a bit lol) But I’m not scared anymore now I feel confident and empowered from wrestling because I know I have and can physically dominate and beat boys up on the mats and not only that I love the thrill of it! Girls are winning, and it doesn’t look like the boys team will make a comeback anytime soon, but they are welcome to try pmsl. Girls rule;)
ReplyDeletep.s @TwentyfirstStarter I’m coming for you!
I’m not scared of you! And don’t be so quick to make fun of the boys, we haven’t given up yet!
DeleteOh really? Do you honestly think you have a hope? Because I think you have no chance, Lets just say it would be wise for you to never ever tangle with me. I know you have no chance. We are a new breed of girl from that of our granma’s day, we are taking over, hell yeah Girl power!!
DeleteI’ve dealt with plenty of girl wrestlers that bully boys on the mats, someone has to stand up to you!
DeleteAnd how did you manage that when your 0-24 pmsl you think you can be so rude and dismissive of me, I would wait till the end of the third period to pin you and for the rest of the match I will beat you so hard no mercy, make you respect me and if you start whelping too much I’ll cross face you so you can’t even cry uncle and the pin will only come when I think you have had enough and your humiliation at the hands of an 8th grader girl is complete lol I’m not a bully, girls aren’t bullies, I’m just standing up to another arrogant girl hating prick
DeleteI know I probably couldn’t beat you, and if we wrestled you would dominate. I don’t hate girls, I hate how girls treat boys on the mat. You’ve already decided to humiliate me as much as possible just because you can. Well you wouldn’t be the first, plenty of girls already make it their goal to punish and humiliate us for as long as they can before pinning us. That’s what I’m standing up against!
DeleteOh get back in the kitchen or play with you dollies where you belong Crystal you silly girl, think you are tough calling out and trying to bully a boy just because you beat a couple of sophomores, you might be able to take a few of our seniors out, but one of us will beat you then it’s pay back!! Boys will give girls payback when we get your measure trust me!
DeleteWow that escalated quick! Think y’all need to calm down, I think Crystal is just playing the psyche game, I would say she has won already by your reactions. She could probably beat both of you at the same time as well in all fairness
DeleteThere’s no need for her to mess around like that. She knows we’ve already been humiliated by girls in wrestling and don’t want to be reminded of it. And the fact that she could probably beat us even if we teamed up on her makes her threats all the more serious!
DeleteAre you Crystal E******o (don’t worry I wont print your name) and wrestle around Omaha? I think I’m one of the sophomores you beat! Ha ha I just thought you were a twerpy girl but you creamed the tar out of me, I couldn’t even score a point and was 4-0 down in the third when you pinned me. Beat by an 8th grader girl, dang! I couldn’t get over how strong you are lol you had me beat. Seeing your posts here just brought back the entire match and it's still painful ha ha I’m laughing about it now but at the time I was frustrated, tired, hurting and I knew I was pinned. I was horrified and you was obviously delighted. I was incredibly embarrassed. Maybe I was lucky you didn’t snap my neck I thought you was going to, you certainly could have lol. I am over it now though, hats off you mangled me fair and square, no hard feelings? I hope you are well :)
Delete21st, Crystal is very talented I won’t be surprised if she wound up becoming a top notch wrestler. Josh are you crazy? The mats are her kitchen and if you tangled with her on them you will be her dolly, that’s what she made me!
(if you are not the same Crystal oops sorry!)
Hi Robbie, hee hee I remember the 1/4 nelson and knowing I could seriously injure you (actually I held back), I know it sounds bad but I did enjoy taking you apart sorry but aww thanks for the sweet words, I’ll be honest I thought you were bit of a jerk and such a cocky look in your eye, like you knew you was going to win. That look drove me harder, so I am sorry about you neck, you were a real douche before and after but I’m glad now you’ve said that I didn’t hurt you too bad. No hard feelings, respect for getting on the mat with me (where were you when our teams met again later in the season, I thought we were meant to rematch?) x
DeleteI was genuinely ill with a virus, laid me out, couldn’t wrestle. if I’m honest I’m glad about it, most people expected you to beat me again and we both know you would to. I keep thinking what should I have done in our first match, how could I have beat you, but I still cant figure it out. I’m just happy I walked off the mat and didn’t get carried, You actually hurt me really bad. Yeah I said some things but around school I got teased by certain kids, even a few girls (non wrestlers) started making jokes about my size and saying they could beat me too. So what could I say? My teammates were very good about it. A few of them tried to console me telling me it happens a lot. After a while things lightened up a lot. I ended my first wrestling season with an 0-2 record against girls but I survived. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger .I actually beat every boy after you lol
DeleteWhat fantastic demonstration of good sportsmanship between victress and vanquished, respect between 2 fighters, after the battle. Hats off to you Robbie you took your licks and stand proud as a man after what was obviously a very distressing moment for you. She may well have hurt you badly but despite being in the 8th grade, Crystal probably knew what she was doing, and she knew exactly how much torque to apply so she would cause pain but not injury. So yeah I think thank her for that. And well done Crystal for what you have achieved, I get the impression from some of the posts of yours I read that you was deliberately put against Robbie in order to lose and to discourage you from wrestling, the fact that you, in Robbies words, ‘mangled’ the boy who was supposed to beat you up speaks volumes!
DeleteYes Robbie the brawny sophomore was supposed to beat me up and make me quit! he even said he would before the match PMSL :D
DeleteCOL(crying out loud), I was unaware of this. I used to think that we(girls and boys) are equal, girls beat us mentally,and we beat girls physically. But reality is something else, you girls are dominating us at everything.
DeleteMe and few girls(classmates) were having a casual debate on girls vs boys topic, I was continuously shouting "We beat you in sports", one girl challenged me at hand wrestling, she has smaller height and weight than me, I laughed and took the challenge.
I thought I would just smash her arms on the table. At start, I applied all my might, I wasn't able to move her arm even a bit, then she started moving my arm slowly, i was trying very hard, but I wasn't able to do anything, my arms were paining, and she was smiling at me, after few seconds, she just smashed my arms on the table, then all the girls started laughing, and she(my opponent), pinched my cheeks. This was too much humiliation, I even got an erection(barely noticeable). Then, she challenged me another match of arm wrestling, tomorrow, I accepted it.
At home, I was continuously thinking about my humiliation that happened in school, my ego was fragile, I just opened up chrome and searched "girls vs boys" to see some matches in which boys beat girls, just to calm down my ego.
But I landed here, I seen many matches and comments, more humiliation and my ego completely shattered.
I am just thinking about what I will do tomorrow, submit to her even before the match? or arm-wrestle her to get an hard on again?
😂 why would you challenge her again? Didn’t you learn your lesson? How did the rematch go?
DeleteI challenged her again, due to my ego. I thought I must defeat her because I am a boy and she is a girl.
DeleteBut now, I don't think I would be able to beat her.
And in the rematch, I lost. But I did well than before, I lasted for a longer time.
I'm joining @TwentyfirstStarter! as a male, I'm not afraid of you @Crystal Luchadora. As a male team, we still cans and up!
DeleteWrestling isn’t a girls sport, but girl wrestlers have made a sport out of beating up boys for sure! You know the many boys tournaments, where girls occupy top spots on the podium? I know the girls nick name them boy bashes! Terrifying :o
ReplyDeleteIn a way I think it’d be better if wrestling was a girls sport, then maybe they wouldn’t be so interested in competing with each other to see who could give their male opponent the worst beating
DeleteI might have agreed with you after my match with Crystal lol. But I never even thought about quitting like some guys after a girl handling. Yes I’ve heard stories like what you say about some girl wrestlers. Mostly though wrestling is about mutual respect of your opponent whatever the gender. It’s boys more than girls who have to and do learn that the hard way like I did
DeleteYeah that’s what sucks about it. Respect should go both ways but we’re always the ones learning the hard way. If the boys a jerk, the girl teaches him a lesson. If the girl’s a jerk then the boy has to take a beating for no reason. Our only chance is to face girls that don’t want to give us an unnecessary beatdown on the mat, but as you’ve seen most girls think it’s fun thrashing boys, and we just have to deal with it
DeleteFor sure there are girls that delight at hurting a boy on the mats and making him cry. But as bad as it seems with this behaviour, you have to remember how young girls are when their emotions or their sense of excitement gets in the forefront. In some ways, since girls like Crystal for example are still in middle school, they might not be able to control their elation - not just for pinning guys, but for "crushing" us, hence their own competition in their “boy bashes”. With age and experience comes maturity and maybe girls will stop behaving like that as they grow older. Also it seems girls are sometimes purposely matched against the toughest boys out there in a deliberate attempt to see them beaten, I think this is their response I’m afraid.
DeleteIf boys behave like girls did about beating us, if we had competitions about girl beating, we would be barred from wrestling for bullying and being sexist. But girls are cheered, praised and applauded. When girls seriously injure or come close to seriously injuring us everyone thinks it’s amazing. In the first match I had, I had to use all my wrestling just to avoid a trip to the emergency room. She could have pinned me quickly, but before she chose to pin me she had me twisted while holding my shoulders off the matt for a good 15 seconds just to make me suffer. (I was already screaming in pain and had begun crying). Stu is right, it’s the younger girls who are worse, proper sadists, the more senior girls in my experience seem to like the psychological torture more, making sure you know she can put you in a wheel chair but not actually while making you suffer. It shouldn’t be allowed to happen >:(
DeleteDo you guys even know how many difficulties and obstacles we have to overcome even just to start training? How many insults we receive just for wanting to do a particular sport and how many people try to tell us we shouldn’t want to do it? If by the time we faced you on the mats you then humiliated us it would then kill girls wrestling dead, I’m sorry guys but there is not a single girl wrestler prepared to allow that to happen. It gets tried by giving us matches against guys who if we were another guy they would say was unfair for us, but you still cry and bitch about we hurt you!!! You even try and say we are the bullies but In order to take part we have to take over and yes we do find it funny sorry guys if that offends your manhood!
Delete@Crystal, so you don't deny girls deliberately try and inflict as much pain as possible to blokes? You don't deny the use of the term boy bash parties? You don't deny girls competing with other girls over who inflicts the most worst beating? But you do deny being a bully?
DeleteWe call them boy bashes, it’s when 3 girls occupy the first second and third place spots on the winner’s podium of a boy’s tournament. Just like this one! https://www.facebook.com/252208071593139/photos/a.302181163262496/363513930462552/?type=3&theater
DeleteBelieve it or not, they happen quite often! And they are a lot of fun (for us girls at least 😂)
WTF!!!! How the hell can boy bashes like this be allowed to happen!!!! none of those girls look any older than freshmen, the dude in 4th looks like a 12th grade bad ass wrestler with 20lb on them how on earth could the girl in 3rd (or any of them) beat him? he would be a champion if no girls were allowed, at least he just looked embarrassed, not too badly beaten those tournaments typically have 32 entrants per category, so those freshmen girls (if that) would have beaten up 29 senior boys?? And you are telling me they had a secret competition between them to see who could inflict the worst beating on us? They look like thy thought the whole thing was a breeze for them!!!!! No fricken way!!!!!
Delete^^^Now you know what girls are doing to us!!!! This particular ‘boy bash’ is actually quite well known and talked about still now as being especially vicious. It was a fairly big tournament with actually over 50 senior boys in the category as well the 3 girls. 2 of them were freshmen, the girl who won a sophomore. No boy took her past the first period in any of her heats. The dude in 4th was the previous seasons state champion.in the match for bronze, the girl in 3rdwho you wonder how she beat him pinned him in under a minute. He had previously lost in the semi’s to the second place girl. He may have been unscathed at the end apart from a bruised ego. Not all the boys who faced the girls in the earlier rounds were so lucky the girls let rip with some vicious wrestling. The girl who took bronze (who actually did cheerleading as well) dislocated one boys (the captain of his team) shoulder blade and won their little worst beating competition between them. As Selena says, this sort of thing happens all the time (you hear a lot of stories about what the girls are doing to boys in tournaments), and it’s all such a laugh for the girls, but how anyone can argue we aren’t the victims of what is basically sanctioned violence and bullying against guys!
Delete"none of those girls look any older than freshmen, the dude in 4th looks like a 12th grade bad ass wrestler with 20lb on them how on earth could the girl in 3rd (or any of them) beat him?"
DeleteHe LOOKS like a bad ass wrestler, she IS a bad ass wrestler
Oh my days!!! First you get in a sulk about our win record, I explained a girls perspective, none of you boys listened to a word I said about the difficulties we face, instead you just focus on boy bashes and calling us bullies. And then I can’t believe how 1 picture of 1 boy bash causes an angry response. You do know the boys who enter these tournaments are supposed to be tough right? This photo rocks! As Josh said the lowest placed girl a freshman pins the best senior boy in the state in less than a minute after all 3 girls have whooped the ass of 50 other seniors can’t you congratulate the winners just because they are (freshmen/sophomore xD) girls? Why you seniors freakin calling this a bad thing, accusing middle school and freshmen girls of bullying you? You know you sound pathetic right? If a boy beat me I would be the first to congratulate him. Perhaps you guys should man up stop crying and wrestle better? You do know boy bashes like this happen every season right? Boy tournaments are an important opportunity for us to demonstrate girl power and boy bashes showcase our achievements and abilities after all our adversities we have overcome as girls to be wrestlers! Being levels above you justifies us in our practice of this sport. it is your fault and your problem you discriminate against us!!!
DeleteBoys are really slow learners 😂 they get salty over one picture of a boy bash and don’t realize that it happens all the time.
DeleteHere’s a tip for the boys: get over it. Girls are wiping the mat with you guys. The sooner you accept that fact, the less bruised your ego will be.
They aren’t slow lerners, they are just sexist. They can’t stand being beaten by a girl just because, well she’s a girl! The idea girls are better than them upsets them, especially in wrestling which is the ultimate physical contest, the ultimate combat sport. They make all sorts of excuses as to why they are getting creamed, they say we only beat smaller younger boys, but when you see the matche results, it’s the opposite! Take that boy bash photo, 3 106lbs freshman girls want to enter a dudes tournament.
DeleteOficials: you know it’s a senior’s event and the lightest weight class is 125lbs with over 50 entrants in that category? Girls all non chalent: yeah that’s ok we don’t mind.
Contest: Senior dudes get obliterated, the girls smash through the heats, each carving up 5 dudes before they meet one another in the semi’s (one guy even got stretchered off after his shoulder blade got separated from his back – that’s girl power!). That was less a ‘boy bash’ more a ‘man slaughter’ hee hee. And they try and say girl’s can’t what?
It sounds like the three girls went out of their way to find an event where they could beat as many boys as possible. It always feels like the small groups of girls that show up stick together, I guess they’re together even before it starts.
DeleteBoy bashes would be alot more frequent if all girls teams were actually allowed to compete against all boys teams in meets
DeleteAt the moment girls have to compete on boys teams to go up against boys
I know of only one occasion where an all girls catholic school began a wrestling program and fielded their team against a top ranked boys varsity team in their first meet, well that was one hell off a boy bash, 13-0 to the girls. But the girls school principle didn't approve and they were never allowed to do it again
I guess a 13-0 win for the girls shouldn’t be surprising, I’ve seen a girls team dominate against boys just like that, but luckily for us those weren’t real matches. I don’t think the sport would be considered competitive anymore if it became girls vs boys
DeleteGreat work Selena, it’s about time someone collated and broadcast the girl v boy scores. But even though we are dominating, I don’t think we can call it a girls sport yet for the simple reason (in most cases) we have to join the boy’s classes and join the boys team to wrestle. Which unfortunately makes it still very much a boy’s sport. Having to train with guys puts a lot of girls of starting wrestling in the first place. Competing against them is ok I haven’t met anyone put off by that and I think we should always be allowed to wrestle them, girls should always be allowed to prove themselves against guys, beat them up on the mat, demonstrate exactly how good we are and what we can do. When I wrestled I always felt as if the guys on the team didn’t want me to be there, none of them would talk to me or act like I exist and that sucked having a team you love not love you back. Sure girls stick together in my district of 4000+ I was only one of 4 girls and even though we weren’t on the same we team, we were a team (we called ourselves the grrl squad lol I remember our first boy bash it felt awesome when we all beat all the boys!) but it’s still not the same. When we can have girls only teams with a woman coach competing against and beating the boys teams then we can really call it a girls sport. xx
ReplyDeleteDo girls always come together to form boy beating squads? It definitely feels like it. From a boy’s perspective, our own small groups always let out a collective groan as soon as we see a group of girls is competing. We know we’re going to have to watch the podium get filled by girls while the rest of us guys sulk on the ground. And for our sake I hope we never have to compete against all girl teams. At that point girls could just call the sport boy bashing instead of wrestling.
Delete‘When I wrestled I always felt as if the guys on the team didn’t want me to be there, none of them would talk to me or act like I exist’ I know that sooooo well!!! I’m the only female wrestler on the team and most of the guys are rude to me but I’m better than and can beat anyone on the team who doesn’t weigh any more than 40 lbs more than me! <3
Delete@TwentyfirstStarter Hell yeah we do!!!
Don't worry, things are slowly changing, girls were always better than us in everything, only patriarchy and stereotypes were stopping them to prove this in front of the boys. As freedom is increasing, and due to spread of internet. More and more people will get to know about this.
DeleteSoon(in 5-10 years), the whole wrestling sport would be filled with only females, female coaches, female athletes, etc, then boys would rarely find any place in wrestling. And people will accept wrestling as a girl's sport.
And my advice to boys: Yeah, our ego would be destroyed, and we would be in so much tension after seeing all this, but we need to accept the truth. We can just watch our favourite series, or jerk off to ease out tension.
I’ve only just started wrestling again in college. The thing that disenchanted me with wrestling is that when I wrestled I really struggled with dating guysl. It was really hard to find a boyfriend who wasn’t scared to be around me. It made me hate wrestling because guys were too afraid to date me. Wrestling made me buff but I’m tall and carry it well and I like being strong and powerful - women can have muscle and still be girly and beautiful!. The singlets we wear in wrestling are not only functional they are form fitting to show off the strength and shape of our body but still express our femininity. This outfit can’t be worn in the outside world obviously, but I love fashion and wearing clothes that express my power and flaunt my assets with pride without looking slutty . I don’t bite, but guys wouldn’t approach me. So I thought I’m strong I’ll pursue them. But when I would tell a guy who is particularly macho that I want a kiss, he wouldn’t know how to react. Or if I like the way a guy makes me feel, and I try to initiate some more time together, he gets all weird about it .These guys need to man up and grow some! Don’t get me wrong I also love intimidating guys for being a female wrestler, especially on the mats, and I have to say I probably did spend way too much time looking at the guys butts as I beat them up, and it takes a lot of will power to actually refrain from physically spanking them lol. They do have cute butts though ;p . For a while I did date this guy from another team and I really loved him bad, he was such a hunk, we used to practice and play wrestle and I would put up with his mansplaining how to wrestle because I thought he was ace, he would cheer for me and be proud of me when I wrestled and beat other guys, but when the day came when we faced each other in competition he was very cocky said this is wrestling and he hoped I wouldn’t get upset with him when he pinned me. Now I just took this as a friendly challenge and I’m very competitive, so maybe I did get carried away but I gave him such a thrashing ragdolled and grrl handled him all over the mat -slaughtered him lol, I wasn’t being malicious I just had so much fun dominating him and I thought his struggling was really cute. Unfortunately he didn’t feel the same, accused me of humiliating him in public called me a bitch and ditched me! I was so upset, heartbroken. I never meant to upset him that much and for ages just wished I had let him win. That’s when I quit high school wrestling, which is the biggest regret of my life, it’s only now I realise he was just a jerk and I should have beaten him more and carried on wresting. I’m back in love with wrestling again but it really sucks for relationships :(
ReplyDeleteThe normal boys in school, used to be cruel to me before I started wrestling, but are scared of me now. But it’s cool can have a joke and play with them, I go up to them and chicken wing or hip throw for fun, they treat me like one of the boys now, it’s nice, but I do sometimes wish I can be treated like a lady now and again.
DeleteYour ex sounds like a loser douche x
Ewww Suze you know you come across as pig ugly and desperate lol! Tall and muscular and dressing like a ho is definetly not beautiful ha ha you come across like a right FUGMO Bertha, no wonder guys run a mile. Just another typical dumb ass girl wrestler loser even when you mangaed to get a guy mad enough to date you, you were so dumb you couldn’t even allow yourself to let him beat you and humiliated him in public, what did you expect he’d take that crap off you? I have no sympathy for you at all – you screwed up!!! Perhaps stay off the mats, Ms hog needs to go on a diet/have plastic surgery and get in the kitchen pmsl
DeleteYou're brave anonymous, typical male attempt at putting girls down and destroying confidence
Delete1)I bet Suze is beautiful, wrestling gives girls great bods, I bet you would swoon if you saw her
2)I bet you would cack your pants if you had to wrestle her
3) You think we'd take crap off you?
How many wins do we need before we can officially claim wrestling as a female sport?
ReplyDeleteIf it’s based on wins, I think girls would have already claimed it by now. Luckily for us, we can use other criteria so girls don’t just come into the sport, dominate, and take it from the boys
DeleteGirls rule the mats
DeleteThat's official, that's a fact!
they should re name it boy bashing
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Boys are still there! And wasn't it just an accident? Girls got lucky?
Deletewish there was photos of boys pinned by girls on this site **
ReplyDeleteThe reason girls win so often is that girls are 4 to 8 years more mature than boys.
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